Although I myself am lean and fairly muscular, I recall when I was a little child my mother told me not to make fun of large people and that “people just come in all shapes and sizes but we’re all the same”. To this day I don’t have the anti-fat hate that so many people have. That said, I have many good friends who are plus-sized ( I live in North America after all…) but I do not find obese people sexually attractive.